My wife keeps deleting messages from a man and I’m worried


DEAR DEIDRE: MY wife keeps deleting her messages from a man on Facebook. Should I be worried?

We’re both 45 and have been married for almost 14 years.


I was surprised when I logged on to my computer and saw what she’d been doing

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Spending every waking moment together during lockdown took its toll on us, so we ended up moving into separate bedrooms so we could have some space.

But we are still intimate, and often go out on date nights.

So I was surprised when I logged on to my computer and saw what she’d been doing.

There, at the top of her Facebook messenger was an empty chat with a guy.

All I can think is that she’s saying stuff she shouldn’t, and so is deleting the evidence.

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DEIDRE SAYS: It does sound like your wife is hiding something from you.

But there may be an innocent explanation, so you need to talk to her.

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