DEAR DEIDRE: MY girlfriend’s kinkiness has got out of hand.
She loves “breast play”, which is fine.
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But this has developed into breastfeeding me.
I’m 26, she’s 29 and we’ve been together for two years.
For the last few weeks, she’s been taking herbal supplements to induce lactation.
She only told me what she had been doing last week.
She asked if I wanted to be breastfed. She acted like it was the sexiest surprise ever.
In the pressure of the situation, I dutifully agreed.
Now she wants me to have a “feed” every night.
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I’m not comfortable with this and it makes me feel dirty even.
I always imagined us having kids together. What if she gets turned on when breastfeeding them?
DEIDRE SAYS: Your girlfriend has developed a breastfeeding fetish and this is fine as long as everyone consents.
As you are becoming increasingly uncomfortable, you do need to let her know and discuss if there is a compromise you would both be happy with.
Discuss with your partner why she enjoys breastfeeding you, and share with her your worries surrounding it.
If you still feel uncomfortable about it, she should respect your boundaries.
If she refuses, I’m afraid you need to consider if you are both compatible.
My support pack, Fetish Worries, will provide more guidance.