My best friend’s husband cheated on her and so she drunkenly kissed mine


DEAR DEIDRE: I HAD a big fallout with my bestie after she drunkenly kissed my husband at our office party.

My friend and I are both 31. We have been inseparable since university and now work at the same firm.


I just can’t believe she kissed my husband

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The last month has been really tough for her.

She found out her love-rat husband has been cheating on her and wants a divorce.

I persuaded her to come to the party earlier this week as I thought it would be good for her to get out.

I remember smiling as she danced with my husband.

And then I watched her kiss him. He pushed her away but I can’t erase the image from my mind.

She apologised but I don’t know if I can forgive her.

I don’t want to throw away our 13-year friendship but can’t help feeling so angry and betrayed – even if she was drunk.

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DEIDRE SAYS: Not many people can say they have had a close friendship that has lated 13 years.

Of course, your friend shouldn’t have kissed your husband.

But, as you say, it would be a shame to throw everything away over a drunken mistake.

Understand that along with the alcohol, she was also experiencing lots of emotional pain.

She clearly regrets her actions so why not try to move on together?

Tell her if she ever makes a move on your husband again though, there will be no more second chances.

I’m attaching my support pack, Rows With Friends, for more guidance.


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