I made a sex rota for me and my NINE wives – it’s exhausting

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A MAN has made a sex rota to schedule time with each of his nine wives – and he says it’s been exhausting to keep up.

Arthur O Urso, from Brazil, made headlines last year when he collectively married his nine wives in a bid to “celebrate free love” and “protest against monogamy”.

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Polygynist Arthur O Urso said creating a sex rota for his nine wives caused ‘problems’
Arthur said he ditched the rota for a more 'natural' approach and says his sex life has never been better

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Arthur said he ditched the rota for a more ‘natural’ approach and says his sex life has never been better

The model and his first wife, Luana Kazaki, are swingers, and formalised their non-legally binding union with eight other women at a Catholic church in São Paulo, where polygamy is illegal.

There have been ups and downs in the relationship, both romantically – with one wife, Agatha, having decided she wants a divorce from the group – and sexually.

Struggling to balance the needs of his many partners, Arthur introduced a sex schedule to make sure he was making love to each of them fairly.

But it proved tricky for the doting husband who found the set-up to be too structured and stressful.

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The model also struggled to focus on just one wife in between the sheets, and often thought of his other partners.

“They all want to fulfill my sexuality at any cost,” he told Jam Press.

“They are happy to make it their goal.

“Our sex life is really fun and pleasurable, and initially I tried to have sex by appointment.

“But following a timetable caused a lot of problems and sometimes I felt like I had to have sex because of the schedule, and not for pleasure.

“On other occasions I had sex with one wife while thinking about another.”

The issues in the bedroom soon caused Arthur to give up the sex rota altogether and instead focus on letting things “flow naturally”.

He admits the sex is now better than ever.

Arthur said: “It doesn’t take long to get attention or affection when you have that many wives.

“It didn’t seem right so we got rid of it and now the sex flows naturally, it’s been great.

“It is very fun, pleasurable and unique to experience everything collectively, and they are all very different in bed.

“One of them, I won’t name her to keep her privacy, likes to be dominant and I like a woman who tells me what she wants.”

While Arthur insists his wives don’t mind how often the others make love to him, he says jealousy crops up when it comes to gift giving.

He added: “When I have given one of them an expensive gift and another a smaller or cheaper one, there has been jealousy among them.

“They all demand attention, affection and sex to be part of our everyday life, and I can’t do more for one than the other.

On other occasions I had sex with one wife while thinking about another

Polygamist Arthur O Urso

“I’m still learning about our relationship.”

It seems one wife, however, has had enough.

Arthur, who has an OnlyFans account with his wives, recently revealed that one of them, Agatha, will be leaving the marriage.

He previously said: “She wanted to have me all to herself.

“It didn’t make sense – we have to share. I was very sad about the separation and even more surprised by her excuse.

“She said that she was missing a monogamous relationship.

“My other wives thought her attitude was wrong and that she accepted the marriage for adventure and not for real feelings.”

He now wants to marry two more women, bringing his number of wives up to 10.

He added: “I have a dream – my wish has always been to have 10 wives.

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“I only have one daughter, but I want to have [a child] with each one of my wives.

“The love I feel for each of them is the same. I think it would be unfair to only have children with one or two of them.”

Arthur married nine wives in a bid to 'celebrate free love' and 'protest against monogomy'

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Arthur married nine wives in a bid to ‘celebrate free love’ and ‘protest against monogomy’Credit: Jam Press
The Brazilian model has his own OnlyFans page

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The Brazilian model has his own OnlyFans pageCredit: Jam Press
The polygamist said he 'struggled with balance' when it came to sex with his nine wives

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The polygamist said he ‘struggled with balance’ when it came to sex with his nine wivesCredit: Jam Press



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