DEAR DEIDRE: I’M worried my kids are going to grow up thinking everyone’s daddy has a “bed day” – just like I do after a bender the night before.
I’m 32 and happily married. My wife is great. She’s 34 and we have two little boys.
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I don’t drink much in the week, perhaps a pint or two at weekends and that’s it.
But every few months I go out with friends and get off my face on booze.
After last weekend I’d really like to put a stop to this. I ended up coming round on my mate’s bathroom floor.
Friends said I was semi-conscious.
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My mum used to be worried about me as a teenager as I’d get drunk to mask my depression.
I don’t want this to be a habit.
DEIDRE SAYS: No, of course you don’t. Look at the cause, though, rather than merely trying to cut down on alcohol.
Do you still live with depression? Is there anything else bothering you?
Find somebody to talk to about your worries through the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, (bacp.co.uk, 01455 883300).
My support pack Drink Problem will also show you where to find some additional support.